Suggestions for a newcomer

[oldworld]

I agree with dananne about Banfi's Rosa Regale Brachetto d'Acqui, it's a fabulous, lip-smacking dessert wine. I'd also suggest Bonny Doon's Framboise (raspberry flavored)dessert wine or their Fresia sparkling wine (strawberry flavored and low in alcohol).
For lighter, fruit-forward reds, I think a softer Pinot Noir is a great idea- try Haley's Mill, Hinman, Pepperwood, or Castlerock. Or try Charlotte St. Shiraz/Cab/Chard (doesn't sound light, but it's really soft and refreshing, especially with a slight chill). A youg Sangiovese will also have bing cherry flavor.
Have a great 4th with your fiance!