Wine and vineyards

[Newbie23]

Hello! As you can tell by my username, I'm pretty new at this and had a few questions. I've been reading articles and using this web site for a few weeks now trying to gather information for trying new wines. I always loved sweet drinks like pina coladas and Asti Spumante really but wanted to get into wines. My first and favorite has been the white zinfandel, I hated merlot and didn’t really care for Pinot Noir. I tried the Beaujolais villages and although I liked it better then the other two it was still too bitter then what I’m ready for. I decided to switch colors and got a Pinot Gridio, it had a much different taste then the reds but I still didn’t love it. Based on what I’ve tried, liked and disliked I’m hoping someone can steer me in the right direction! My husbands getting mad that I keep buying bottles of wine that I don’t really like! Also, I thought a good way to find out what I like would be to go to a wine tasting. I live in Southern Maine so I don’t really know if there is an abundance of choices. If someone has a suggestion of a winery or maybe a restaurant that does wine tasting I’d really love to learn more! Thank you so much!!!