Looking for the right wine

[Heerter]

hello, I'm a college student looking for advice from experienced wine afficianados. The question sounds strange, but here goes:
Which wine would go best with spaghettios? I was thinking maybe a pinot grigio, but I'm not sure. Keep in mind spaghettios contain cheese as well as pasta in tomato sauce. It might sound like an inane question, but really, what could be more romantic than spaghettios and wine (especially the right wine)? And, my purposes are romantic. I appreciate the help.
-Josh