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[n144mann]

Now that is an interesting statement Bucko....why do you find it impolite for a man to accept help from a woman if the task is physical? Especially since it could be considered part of my job? I am sure you would not decline help with something that was not physical would you??

I certainly do not feel that it is impolite for a man to accept my help. In fact, I often enjoy the chance to help, it is a great way to keep in touch with a customer that I would not have had a chance to touch base with otherwise.

Men, please do not misunderstand...I am all for gentlemanly chivalry. Personally Rick...I LOVE that southern upbringing!! It was one of the things I very much enjoyed about southern men. BUT, at the same time, I certainly do not see anything wrong with giving a man a hand, nor his accepting my help, even when the task is a physical one. In my book, turn about is fair play, especially in the workplace.

As for testosterone Rick...here I thought that was why the men that are close to my age (also fairly young) "LET" me help them.....laugh I have had to fend off more than one, which IMO, "IS" very impolite on their part.

Nancy




[This message has been edited by n144mann (edited 11-12-1999).]