Why MEN??

[Randy Caparoso]

Nancy, I truly like your role. You get to pick the wine but NOT pay the bill. As you would imagine, since I'm in the business, I too often get that privilege (I love it when they say, "Let Randy choose the wine!).

With my wife, unfortunately, I get stuck with all the jobs.

But really, if a server or manager knows that you have chosen the wine, and still gives it to your husband to taste... well, that's inexcusable. The only time I ever pour wine for both people to taste is when neither one wants to do it, or when I sense that this is a situation where a group decision would probably be best.