Wine for Xmas Family Dinner

[shampoogirl]

For our family Christmas dinner, we are having a multitude of food which means different wines. Appetizers are the basics of cheese and crackers, hawaiian meatballs, chex mix and shrimp cocktail. Dinner is ham and teriyaki tri-tip (lightly seasoned) with the usual side dishes. Dessert is apple pie and ice cream. I would like any type of suggestions for all three courses, it can be different wines for each course. Thanks!!